The number one thing that helped me heal emotionally from my ruptured ectopic pregnancy/miscarriage and emergency surgery was the outpour of stories that came my way. It’s a club that no one wants to find themselves in but it really helps knowing you’re not alone! I hope we can normalise talking about miscarriage, how common it is, the pain, and for women to know it’s not the end and you are not a failure. Somehow, I chose to make this the most transformational event in my life. This is my story.